Alzheimer's Carers: Practical Tips for Providing Compassionate Everyday Support
There can be rewarding experiences and problematic times when you're caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease. Simple activities in everyday life may take longer — and require patience, planning and flexibility. Knowing how to help with daily tasks without taking away dignity and compassion can be a big part of life for a carer of someone with Alzheimer's.
Giving care is not about having an ideal solution in any
situation. It's all about learning to adapt, identifying changing needs and
remembering the individual receiving care is the priority of all decisions.
Understanding the Person Behind the
Condition
The most critical thing to keep in mind as a caregiver is
that dementia should not be the entire person. They have a personality,
memories, interests, relationships and preferences that are still relevant.
Fleeting
Moments & Magic Memories by Joanne Nesbit delves into this aspect from
the experiences of members of the Magic Memories Friendship Group. This book
includes real-life examples as well as a chapter with practical advice for
carers.
It may be worth the time to find out what is important to an
individual and what their usual routines are so that carers can make them
familiar and comforting.
Make Everyday Routines familiar
When other parts of daily life become confusing, familiar
routines can help to offer a sense of structure. Keeping to a routine of
regular meal times, familiar activities and consistent surroundings can help to
make everyday tasks easier to manage.
In the book, Joanne focuses on practical strategies to
foster an enabling environment such as: Calendars and information boards;
Reducing unnecessary clutter; Thoughtful planning for lighting and contrast
around the home.
It is not intended to transform the whole thing. Sometimes
minor changes can make a big difference in daily life.
Communicate With Patience
As dementia worsens, communication can become more
challenging. May have difficulty finding words, comprehension of a
conversation, or communicating needs.
Patience is of the essence for Alzheimer's carers. Allowing people time to react,
listening and not letting the pressure build up can make conversations less
stressful.
Using familiar language and asking one question or
instruction at a time instead of presenting multiple questions or instructions
can also be helpful.
Encourage Meaningful Activities
Activities can provide structure, enjoyment and
opportunities for connection. They can be simple and inexpensive!
Activities covered in Fleeting Moments & Magic Memories
are: puzzles, colouring, outings and time together.
The best thing to do is to use an activity that people are
interested in and can do. The things that used to be fun may still have a
comforting role to play, and some things might have to be modified as things
change.
Focus Your Own Health
However, at times caregivers are so caught up in caring for
the person they care for that they neglect their own needs. But it can be
challenging to care for others and to take breaks in order to sustain
wellbeing.
Joanne's caregiver guidance covers health and wellbeing,
emotional difficulties and identifying if further support is needed.
Support from family and friends may be possible and can give
the primary carer a chance to have some rest, attend appointments or just have
time away from the caring.
Develop a Support Network
No caregiver should feel like they are responsible for
everything. Financial and emotional assistance from family, friends, and community
support groups can help.
In Joanne Nesbit's book, Magic Memories Friendship Group,
she provides an example of friendship group forming through shared experiences.
Members can communicate, be involved in activities and connect with other
members outside of groups.
Being able to ask questions or voice concerns at a place can
assist others with Alzheimer's stay less isolated in their caregiving journey.
Compassion in Everyday Care
Perfection is not a requirement of Compassion. It can be
demonstrated through patience in a challenging conversation, showing respect
for another person's preferences, modifying an activity, and/or spending time
together.

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